The almost-toddler wants very much to feed herself! She seems like a baby, but acts like a toddler. Even if she seems small and clumsy, don’t try to feed her. She will fuss and not eat. She’s not being naughty or spoiled. She hasn’t stopped loving you. She just wants to feed herself. She knows she’s not a baby any more. Let her feed herself, but stay with her when she eats. You need to keep her company and keep her safe from choking.
© Ellyn Satter