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Letting Your Child Play with Food Can Be a Good Thing

August 27, 2025 Children

Cauliflower Tacos?!

This delicious roasted cauliflower taco recipe with creamy avocado topping is easy, healthy, ready in 30 minutes and makes a perfect meatless meal! Ideal for taco Tuesday, or any day really!

Servings: 5
Prep Time: 15 minutes
Cook Time: 30 minutes
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sofia's story Letting Your Child Play with Food Can Be a Good Thing

You may have heard (or even said yourself), “Don’t play with your food!” But what if playing with food actually helped your child learn and grow?

It turns out that letting your child touch, mash, and explore their food can be good for their brain, help them try new foods, and even make mealtimes easier for everyone.

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Food Helps Your Child How Playing with Food Helps Your Child
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It helps their brain grow.

Young children learn by using their senses—seeing, smelling, touching, and tasting. When they play with food, they learn about shapes, colors, textures, and even words. A study showed that toddlers who played with food learned words about food textures (like “soft” or “squishy”) faster than kids who didn’t.

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It helps them try new foods.

Kids who feel comfortable touching and playing with food are more likely to taste it. Playing with food can help picky eaters feel relaxed at the table and more open to trying new things. Food art—like making fun faces or shapes with fruits and veggies—can also make meals more fun.

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It gives them a sense of control.

Sometimes, mealtimes feel like a battle between parents and kids. But for kids, refusing to eat might be their way of feeling in control. When we stop forcing bites and allow some play, kids may feel less pressure and be more curious. That can lead to more eating—on their own terms.

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It builds creativity.

When kids are allowed to explore food with fewer rules, they can enjoy meals more. They might stack veggies, dip foods in sauces, or invent games using their plate. As long as table manners are safe and respectful, a little fun can go a long way.

Easy Ways to Let Kids Play with Food

GIVE FOOD PLAY A TRY WITH THESE FUN IDEAS:

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1. Let them help cook

Even little ones can help in the kitchen. Let them stir, mash, or hand you ingredients. Babies can watch from a highchair while you cook.

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2. Make fun food

Try creating playful meals like:

  • Fruit caterpillars
  • Banana palm trees
  • Veggie boats

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3. Take them shopping

Make grocery shopping more fun. Try a scavenger hunt for older kids. Younger ones may enjoy the colors and smells at a farmer’s market.

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4. Draw their food

Have your child draw what’s for dinner. Then ask silly questions: What if the carrot was hot pink? What if peas were fluffy?

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5. Match colors

Put a box of crayons on the table. Can your child find a crayon to match the food colors on their plate? What colors are missing from their plate? What foods could they try that are that color?

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6. Taste test

Have your child close their eyes and guess what they’re eating. Try mixing foods together to see what flavors and textures they like. What tastes do they like the best? What do they not enjoy eating and why? How does mixing one food with another change the taste?

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7. Listen to food

Ask your child what sounds food makes as they chew—like squishy potatoes or crunchy carrots.

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8. Feel the food

Put fruits or veggies in a paper bag. Let your child reach in and guess what they feel:

  • Fuzzy = kiwi fruit, peach
  • Smooth = tomato, apple
  • Bumpy = orange, mandarin
  • Squishy = banana
  • Small, Round = grape
  • Hard = apples, potatoes

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9. Make smoothies

Let your child help make a smoothie. Blend berries, milk, and bananas in a blender or food processor. Use a silly straw or fun cup to make it an extra special smoothie.

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10. Eat the alphabet

Choose foods that match letters. For example:

  • C-A-T: corn, apple, tomato
  • D-O-G: dates, orange, grapes
Make silly sounds for each letter as they eat.

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11. Pick your own food

Visit a farm, Farmers’ Market, or pick-your-own orchard. Or consider starting a small herb or vegetable garden at home. Kids who touch food in its natural state are more likely to eat it later.

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Final Thought

Letting your child play with their food may be messy—but it can also help them grow, learn, and eat new foods. Try a few of these ideas and see how food can turn into fun!

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Side-Lying Hold

  1. For the right breast, lie on your right side with your baby facing you.
  2. Pull your baby close. Your baby’s mouth should be level with your nipple.
  3. In this position, you can cradle your baby’s back with your left arm and support yourself with your right arm and/or pillows.
  4. Keep loose clothing and bedding away from your baby.
  5. Reverse for the left breast.

This hold is useful when:

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Cross-Cradle Hold

  1. For the right breast, use your left arm to hold your baby’s head at your right breast and baby’s body toward your left side. A pillow across your lap can help support your left arm.
  2. Gently place your left hand behind your baby’s ears and neck, with your thumb and index finger behind each ear and your palm between baby’s shoulder blades. Turn your baby’s body toward yours so your tummies are touching.
  3. Hold your breast as if you are squeezing a sandwich. To protect your back, avoid leaning down to your baby. Instead, bring your baby to you.
  4. As your baby’s mouth opens, push gently with your left palm on baby’s head to help them latch on. Make sure you keep your fingers out of the way.
  5. Reverse for the left breast.

This hold is useful when:

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Clutch or “Football” Hold

  1. For the right breast, hold your baby level, facing up, at your right side.
  2. Put your baby’s head near your right nipple and support their back and legs under your right arm.
  3. Hold the base of your baby’s head with your right palm. A pillow underneath your right arm can help support your baby’s weight.
  4. To protect your back, avoid leaning down to your baby. Bring baby to you instead.
  5. Reverse for the left breast.

This hold is useful when:

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Cradle Hold

  1. For the right breast, cradle your baby with your right arm. Your baby will be on their left side across your lap, facing you at nipple level.
  2. Your baby’s head will rest on your right forearm with your baby’s back along your inner arm and palm.
  3. Turn your baby’s tummy toward your tummy. Your left hand is free to support your breast, if needed. Pillows can help support your arm and elbow.
  4. To protect your back, avoid leaning down to your baby. Instead, bring your baby to you.
  5. Reverse for the left breast.

This hold is useful when:

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Laid-Back Hold

  1. Lean back on a pillow with your baby’s tummy touching yours and their head at breast level. Some moms find that sitting up nearly straight works well. Others prefer to lean back and lie almost flat.
  2. You can place your baby’s cheek near your breast, or you may want to use one hand to hold your breast near your baby. It’s up to you and what you think feels best.
  3. Your baby will naturally find your nipple, latch, and begin to suckle.

This hold is useful when: